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These Pages

All of these historical pages are available to all who wish to read them. 

Many of these pages refer to my own Quest.  It was this site, these pages and Efficient Love - The Good-Man Methodology that helped me find my own, perfect for me, Heroine.  My Quest has been totally, successfully accomplished - and Janet and I are sharing a glorious path of our own Happily Here & Now on our way to our shared version of Happily Ever After.

Although my Quest was wonderfully successful and is now over, I have left many of these pages that refer to my own search unchanged so that readers can better understand how I used The Method.  Hence, many pages purposely have not been updated to show my success!

My most sincere hope is that this old site will help give you insights on how best to EFFICIENTLY  find your own Hero or Heroine!

EfficientLove.com     

To find out more, also check out www.EfficientLove.com for updates.

Paths & Trails

Autumn leaves are absolutely best savored in the Great Smoky Mountains National Park -- especially when either climbing quiet, placid mountain trails beside gurgling streams to reach gushing waterfalls or majestic peaks -- or driving back park lanes at slow speeds with the top down on the convertible...but what would make both so absolutely perfect -- would be if you are fortunate enough to have THE most special, highly energetic, amazingly adventurous and totally adorable companion beside you the entire time! Click for more about these pictures.  Efficient Love and Relationships - For Better Dating, Online Dating and Relationships

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Autumn leaves are absolutely best savored in the Great Smoky Mountains National Park -- especially when either climbing quiet, placid mountain trails beside gurgling streams to reach gushing waterfalls or majestic peaks -- or driving back park lanes at slow speeds with the top down on the convertible...but what would make both so absolutely perfect -- would be if you are fortunate enough to have THE most special, highly energetic, amazingly adventurous and totally adorable companion beside you the entire time! Click for more about these pictures.  Efficient Love and Relationships - For Better Dating, Online Dating and Relationships.

The Main Paths

Below are the three main paths through my Domain. 

You can always look here on all the pages to change to another main path at any time.

Your Quest

Click on the path below to find ways for you to better define the Hero or Heroine you seek.

Click for the Path to Your Quest - Efficient Love and Relationships - For Better Dating, Online Dating and Relationships

Writings

Click on the path below if you would like to read my fiction and non-fiction. 

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My Quest

Click on the path below if you want to learn all about me and see my own wish lists for the Heroine I seek for me.

Caution:  this is a long and hard trail intended only for those few brave souls who might, just maybe, be my Heroine.

Click for the Path to My Quest - Efficient Love and Relationships - For Better Dating, Online Dating and Relationships



What's New

Very Major Update:

VERY HAPPILY MARRIED
Details by clicking Heroine Found.

New Page:  Dear Dashing are periodic answers to emails I receive about how to better apply The Good-Man Methodology to the reader's own relationship issues. 

New Page:  Relationship Foreplay which will give you 5 dates of info on a prospective lover in only 5 minutes!

New page just added to share some of the the spectacular, mesmerizing, kaleidoscopic sunsets that slowly parade out at sea each evening off my balcony.  Click the picture to see some of the whispering quiet reminders of the power of God.

 Click for sunsets galore

New pages just added for those who want Instant Chemistry first and for those who think I have too much Time on My Hands!

New page:  Strictly for friends and family on my recent relocation  to a new paradise.  Email me for the map to this hidden trail.

The view from my balcony that we might share on part of our first date...Click for BIG picture!  Efficient Love and Relationships - For Better Dating, Online Dating and Relationships    

Also, a new page,  Soulmate Math on how each picky trait you want impacts your number of possible Heroes or Heroines.

Also, several new Dragon pages have just been added.  The first 8 of them have been so popular, I've added ten more Sneaky Relationship Dragons to the list.

General Updates Continue

This Domain is undergoing it first major renovation in four years.  Some main trails and side paths are undergoing brand new construction while others are simple cosmetic repairs.  Those paths undergoing major new construction may still be temporarily closed.

This Domain started, once upon a time, as a single page and a single picture with my own Quest as its sole goal.  The site has grown haphazardly to over 350 separate web pages and some readers are getting lost in the bushes. 

These new pages will have much better navigation with much better organization of thought and purpose - with it primary goal of helping others find their own Hero or Heroine.

Please stay tuned and. as always, comments and suggestion are welcome.  Also, please let me know of broken links, typos, inconsistent formatting or anything that seems confusing.


Click to email me

One note about emailing me:  Please click on the eyes and don't change the automated subject line.  If you do, my spam filter will probably delete your mail without me seeing it until I add you as a "Friend."

Sorry for the constraint, but I get almost 2,000 spams every day - and this is the only way to easily solve the problem!


 

My Writings

Note:  These pages used to have my fiction that is now included in my new book

Check out my newest Amazon Bestseller, "Don't Waste Another Sunset" - The Fiction Companion To Efficient Love!

The Following Are Two Poems - Neither Written By Me

Roses for Rose

This is something I usually make available on Valentine's Day but decided I would keep it visible for a while longer.

Dashing Good Poem

This is a short poem written by two fans about my Quest for my Heroine.  Part of it might surprise and even astound you. Thank you, Sarah and Leslie.

Reader Responses

Some feedback on my latest book, The Good-Man Methodology for Efficient Love and some original artwork and comments, from readers of Hot Chats - The Novel.

If you read these works, let me know your comments -- I might add your insights and reflections about them, too.

 

The Book

If you're enjoying your visit here to my Domain, you can help support, sponsor and maintain all of these many paths and trails with your purchase of the JUST released THIRD edition of Efficient Love.

The just-released 184 page paperback edition is now available at Amazon, Barnes and Noble and most bookstores for only $19.97! 

Get your own Efficient Love today!

 

If it's not in stock at your local bookstore,  just have them special order it for you. Tell them it's ISBN # 978-0-9792952-0-1

Click the Book Cover for Amazon Listing:

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Want to know more first?  Check out www.EfficientLove.com for a taste test!


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Click to see all the products available!

The above photos just show a few of the over 4,000 products NOW available that reflect over four dozen of the "Efficient Epiphanies TM" of the book - products include everything from tees to thongs...from hats to things for your mice and doggies...from teddies to tote bags....and for all sorts of items for your baby...no matter what their age!  

We have tried to include a lot of combinations that readers want.  If you want a different combination of Efficient Epiphanies TM and photography and logos, let us know and we will try our best to generate products that meet your wants, wishes and needs!

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Click to email me

One note about emailing me:  Please click on the eyes and don't change the automated subject line.  If you do, my spam filter will probably delete your mail without me seeing it until I add you as a "Friend."

Sorry for the constraint, but I get almost 2,000 spams every day - and this is the only way to easily solve the problem!


Efficient Love?

The concept of Efficient Love is not the oxymora it first appears. 

Doesn't it  make incredible sense to invest a few hours to FULLY define ALL of your wants, wishes and needs that would describe your ideal lover?   

By efficiently identifying the general traits, characteristics, sexual issues and day-in day-out needs you find important, you can very quickly recognize if a prospective lover is a genuine long-term match BEFORE the chemistry takes over and leads you into yet another dead-end relationship and through another Cycle of the Nine Stages of Love.

Do you really want to watch the sun set on yet another day without sharing YOUR path of Happily Here & Now with someone who wants YOUR same Happily Ever After?

Doesn't it make more sense for you to find YOUR ideal Hero or Heroine as quickly and efficiently as possible? Wouldn't you rather share as many glorious days and nights of wonderful inefficiencies possible with your ideal lover, as quickly as possible?

Don't waste another sunset.

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These pages will show you how.

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Improve Your Dating, Love, Relationships for Happily Ever After Love

Dating, love, relationships, marriage, romance are all important concepts to avoid loneliness,being lonely and divorce.
Dating, love, relationships, marriage, romance 

What method do you use in your life for dating, love, relationships, marriage, romance? 

Do you seek Happily Ever After in a relationship?

 

Improve Your Dating, Love, Relationships for Happily Ever After Love

Dating, love, relationships, marriage, romance are all important concepts to avoid loneliness, being lonely and divorce.
Dating, love, relationships, marriage, romance 

What method do you use in your life for dating, love, relationships, marriage, romance? 

Do you seek Happily Ever After in a relationship?

 

 


 

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Improve Your Dating, Love, Relationships for Happily Ever After Love

Dating, love, relationships, marriage, romance are all important concepts to avoid loneliness,being lonely and divorce.
Dating, love, relationships, marriage, romance 

What method do you use in your life for dating, love, relationships, marriage, romance? 

Do you seek Happily Ever After in a relationship?

 

Improve Your Dating, Love, Relationships for Happily Ever After Love

Dating, love, relationships, marriage, romance are all important concepts to avoid loneliness, being lonely and divorce.
Dating, love, relationships, marriage, romance 

What method do you use in your life for dating, love, relationships, marriage, romance? 

Do you seek Happily Ever After in a relationship?